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by Mary Elizabeth Dallas
December 20, 2011
Bringing home a new baby is a big transition for everyone in the family, even pets. “A newborn baby is unfamiliar to our pets. Our pets do not understand that they are a part of our family until long after baby has been with us. It is long-term inclusion of our pets in the daily routines of our baby that will build the bonds,” explains Jennifer Shryock, Certified Dog Behavior Consultant and creator of Family Paws Programs and Dogs & Storks. Shryock warns that dogs and cats can react to a newborn in many ways—becoming depressed or exhibiting inappropriate behaviors such as pawing or urinating. She advises new parents to be aware of any changes in their pet’s behaviors and to contact a behavior consultant or their veterinarian if they have concerns.
Fortunately, in preparing to bring a new baby home, there are a number of simple and effective ways you can help your pet prepare for and cope with this big change and ensure the safety of your newborn. As for the timing, Shryock notes that it’s never too soon to begin prepping your pet for a new baby.
Preparing your dog or cat for a new baby is not unlike informing children about a new brother or sister who will be joining the family, according to the Humane Society. The advocacy group warns that pets that are used to being the center of attention may experience something similar to “sibling rivalry” when a new baby comes into the home. The trick is to ease your pet’s stress or jealously to ensure a smooth and safe transition. The advocacy group offers some tips on how you can start that process even before your baby comes home:
Shryock adds that parents should also plan ahead by brainstorming the “what if?” scenarios. For instance, if the phone rings while the baby is in a swing, or if a parent or caregiver needs to go to the bathroom, they must consider where their pets are to ensure they do not have access to the baby. “The baby should never be left unattended in a place where any pet has access to them,” says Shryock.
Once your newborn arrives, the Humane Society advises taking some additional steps to prepare your pets and ensure your baby’s safety. Before introducing your pets to a newborn, allow them to smell and investigate an article of the baby’s clothing or a blanket that has the baby’s scent so they can become familiar with it. Pets may also be excited when you finally arrive home with the baby. It’s a good idea to bring the baby to another room before greeting your pet until they have a chance to calm down. Some additional safety precautions you can take include:
The Humane Society also notes that cat owners should be sure to keep litter boxes out of their baby’s reach, and thoroughly wash their hands after changing the litter to avoid toxoplasmosis—a rare disease caused by the parasite Toxoplasma gondii, which can be found in cat feces as well as raw or undercooked meat.
Pets can make bringing a new baby home a bit stressful, but as the AAP notes, extra attention and discipline of your pets will solve most pet problems. Relatives, friends, and older siblings can also ease the transition by spending a little extra time with your pet and providing some extra reassurance that your pet still has a place in the family. A bumpy start isn’t always a sign that the two won’t get along. Often pets just need time to adjust to the new addition.