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by Melissa Clark Vickers
November 16, 2011
The ‘C’ word—colic—can be a parent’s worst nightmare. Crying for hours on end for no apparent reason can challenge the patience of even the most dedicated parents.
Parents know that when their babies cry it is a call to action, a sound made for attention when other, more subtle, means of communication have failed.
Sucking sounds, rooting, and squirming are a baby’s way of saying, “Feed me.” Fussing and fretting signal, “I’m lonely. Hold me,” or “Diaper change, please.” Parents soon learn to identify the subtle cues that let them know what their babies need and when they need it. Research shows that babies whose needs are consistently met seldom cry. But what about the 10–20 percent of babies who develop a pattern of crying with no obvious cause?
Does your baby have colic?
The generally accepted definition of colic was first reported by Wessel and colleagues in a 1954 issue of Pediatrics. According to the so-called “rules of threes,” colic is “crying or fussing for more than 3 hours a day, for more than 3 days a week, and for more than 3 weeks, in an infant who is well-fed and otherwise healthy.” Colic typically develops around 2–4 weeks of age, and it usually resolves by 3–4 months.
While “the rule of threes” is a handy guideline, the most important characteristic of colic is “persistent excessive crying.” Colic affects the parent, as well as the child. Frustration and exhaustion can lead to feelings of failure, low self-esteem, powerlessness, depression, and even anger. Ultimately, colic affects the parent-child relationship.
“Normal” infant crying is often predictable, triggered by certain circumstances, and preventable provided pre-cry cues are answered. In contrast, colic is persistent, piercing, and seemingly painful. The crying spells can occur at any time, although many parents report that they usually occur in the evening.
Signs of colic:
Not all persistent crying is colic. Colic does not cause fever; fever is usually a sign of infection. Also, babies with colic do not show signs of pain as soon as they awaken; babies who start to cry as soon as they awaken should be checked for other causes.
What can you do?
If your baby cries for extended periods of time, use a three-step approach: search for triggers; keep soothing; wait it out. The first two require a combination of detective work and trial-and-error, while the third requires patience and understanding.
Search for triggers
Theories about the causes of colic generally point to either an immature digestive system or an immature nervous system. With a bit of effort, you may be able to identify your baby’s triggers and strategies for relieving her discomfort. Common triggers include: